Have you ever started something new, only to give it up days or weeks later?
No, don’t blame it on your crazy schedule. Not even on your (lack of) discipline.
There is nothing wrong with you.
Your reason or motive for what you’ve started, was not strong enough.
What does this mean?
You often start something as a reaction to a problem (e.g. I need to lose weight so I’ll go to the gym). You don’t usually start something new as a well thought action, rooted in a deeper reason aligned with your values and priorities. This is the reason why, when the initial, superficial motive is no longer enough, you stop.
And here is the truth:
There is a deeper reason for everything you do.
So when you want to do something new, it’s a great idea to reflect on the deeper reasons that drive your actions. Because knowing your true why has many benefits – here are the main 5:
1. Is a driving force! It gives you a powerful motivational boost. When you know the true why, you can stay committed.
2. Is like having a roadmap. You know exactly where you’re headed. Exploring the true why helps clarify your goals. This clarity makes it easier to set realistic milestones and stay focused on what matters to you.
3. Making decisions becomes a breeze! You can quickly assess whether a choice aligns with your purpose – so saying yes or no becomes easier. This reduces indecision and brings a sense of confidence to your choices.
4. Is a trusted way to bounce back from setbacks. In tough times, knowing and remembering your why acts as a resilient core. It helps you build grit, learn from challenges, and move forward with determination.
5. Allows you to stay true to yourself and your values. This authenticity attracts genuine connections and builds a sense of fulfillment. What’s better than aligning your actions with your true purpose?
You’re only one step away from discovering the true reasons that fuel your actions.
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